Steve Grand’s new video explains what turns him off when using dating apps.

Gay singer Steve Grand has released a new video as the first in a series of videos on Youtube which detail things that kill his boner.

The former country singer turned pop star explains what it is that sends the blood shooting away from his nether region when he’s using dating apps.

“I noticed that someone with a very nice torso messaged me,” Steve says. “You know they had the nice dad bod, which is what I like, and you know their hair pattern on their chest was really nice.”

But Grand had forgotten to read the man’s profile information and when he did he was shocked to find out that “this person seems to be a very negative person.”

Steve was referring to the fact that the man’s profile outlined “a laundry list of things they don’t like about people” including the dating scene, and people’s qualities.

Check out the video below to see how Grand manages to combat the irony of describing a man who has a list of things he doesn’t like in his video which outlines things that kill his boner.

There’s a lot of things that people find annoying about dating apps (aka hookup apps). What bugs you the most? Profiles with no pictures? Headless torsos? The existential crisis of having to pigeonhole yourself into one category?