Buzzfeed knows what’s up – watch this pretty accurate video about what it’s like to be a lesbian trying to find a suitable fellow lesbian for dating and general merriment.

You’re a lesbian who is done with straight girls experimenting, girls who have slept with your ex, girls who share your name or girls who dress just like you.

You’re also sick of those happy, non-Tinder couples who met in person and know nothing about the struggle of online dating. Screw those guys.

Watch the video below and know that you’re not alone: